Single And Looking VS Single And Loving It

Either stance could be reversed, without notice. The woman on the prowl every ladies night of the week can mysteriously awaken with a sudden epiphany. After running through every different kind of guy, perhaps it's time for her to stop looking for love and start loving her life, as is.

Just as easily, the self-assured single woman with no qualms being a party of one, might spend a day in the park and walk past the quintessencial couple, holding hands, absorbed in their own chemistry. Such a sight could quickly motivate Ms. Self-Assured to open herself to the possibility of love.

Most of us agree that neither approach is wrong. Still, it would be reckless for any woman prepared to go on the hunt for love, to not first be comfortable being a woman who walks into parties, restaurants, and other social functions alone. Far too many women allow minor insecurities to hinder them from socially blosssoming on their own. Solo. It's as if we believe that if we're caught dead on a Saturday night, standing on line at a movie theater, ready to purchase a ticket for one, someone will identify her as one of those lonely losers, too damaged to be loved by another. As if!

More often than not, the people standing in front and behind you don't give a damn who you are, or what you're buying. And, if they are looking, rest assured they're acknowledging one of your atributes, or, maybe checking out your purse.


Sometimes in a relationship, we can be so caught up in our beloveds we forget to nurture and appreciate the things that got our rocks off before they came along. Being in-between relationships is the perfect time to rediscover those passions you lived for, long before you found love.


She's So New York is dedicating this week to all the single ladies in New York City! Expect coverage of hot-spots singles will enjoy, great places to meet other single guys, how to stay sexy without the sex, women who've rediscovered themselves through being single, and much more!


If you're a single woman with tips for other ladies, or, you have something you'd like to contribute to our upcoming website, shessonewyork.com, email us at walkergordonproductions@gmail.com

Tamela J. Gordon